P1470:2, 133:2.1
While tarrying at the ship landing, waiting for the boat to unload cargo, the
travelers observed a man mistreating his wife. As was his custom, Jesus intervened
in behalf of the person subjected to attack. He stepped up behind the irate
husband and, tapping him gently on the shoulder, said: "My friend, may I speak
with you in private for a moment?" The angry man was nonplused by such an approach
and, after a moment of embarrassing hesitation, stammered out -- "er
-- why -- yes, what do you want with me?" When Jesus had led him to one
side, he said: "My friend, I perceive that something terrible must have happened
to you; I very much desire that you tell me what could happen to such a strong
man to lead him to attack his wife, the mother of his children, and that right
out here before all eyes. I am sure you must feel that you have some good reason
for this assault. What did the woman do to deserve such treatment from her husband?
As I look upon you, I think I discern in your face the love of justice if not
the desire to show mercy. I venture to say that, if you found me out by the
wayside, attacked by robbers, you would unhesitatingly rush to my rescue. I
dare say you have done many such brave things in the course of your life. Now,
my friend, tell me what is the matter? Did the woman do something wrong, or
did you foolishly lose your head and thoughtlessly assault her?" It was not
so much what he said that touched this man's heart as the kindly look and the
sympathetic smile which Jesus bestowed upon him at the conclusion of his remarks.
Said the man: "I perceive you are a priest of the Cynics, and I am thankful
you restrained me. My wife has done no great wrong; she is a good woman, but
she irritates me by the manner in which she picks on me in public, and I lose
my temper. I am sorry for my lack of self-control, and I promise to try to live
up to my former pledge to one of your brothers who taught me the better way
many years ago. I promise you."