Jesus attained full physical growth
when he was sixteen. He had a healthy body, a keen mind, a kind disposition,
and a strong personality. His siblings were becoming confused about
his mission. Mary intimated that Jesus was to be the deliverer of
the Jewish people, but Jesus denied it.
James took over the
schooling of their three sisters, which freed Jesus to devote himself
to earning a living for them at his workbench. Jesus gradually spoke
less about his thoughts concerning his life's mission. Although there
was much Mary could not understand about her son, she appreciated
his diligence in providing for their family.
When Jesus was seventeen,
there was growing political discontent in Judea. The Zealots wanted
to revolt against Roman rule. Mary pressured Jesus to enlist in the
Zealots, but he refused. A moneylender named Isaac offered to support
of the family if Jesus would enlist, but still he refused. After consulting
with his chazan, Jesus announced that his family needed not just those
things that money could buy, but also a father's care. Jesus began
working in the old family repair shop, where he was cheered by daily
contact with people from all over the country.
Over time, Jesus persuaded
Mary to accept his method of child rearing-encouraging the positive
instead of forbidding the negative. This theme carried on into Jesus'
public teachings. He always emphasized what should be done rather
than what should be avoided.
Rebecca, daughter of
Erza, fell in love with Jesus and asked him to marry her. Jesus thanked
her for her offer, but refused, saying that he was not free to consider
marriage until his family was raised, and even then, he would have
to wait until his destiny became clear. Rebecca was heartbroken, but
remained in such a state of admiration for Jesus that she followed
him throughout his public work.
By the end of his teenage
years, Jesus had learned to take responsibility well, to carry on
in the face of disappointment, to bear up bravely when his plans were
thwarted, to be fair when faced with injustice, to adjust spiritual
living to the demands of existence, and to depend solely on the guidance
of his Father in Heaven.